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not anymore, dear little one
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not anymore, dear little one

Do you have one loved little one, like me, that’s always screaming for your attention ... always interrupting things? 

Do you have one that no matter how hard you try and how calm you attempt to make your surroundings, will always squawk just as you’re sitting down to dinner or getting settled in to read a book or play a family game at night? 

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an ever-present help in times of trouble
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an ever-present help in times of trouble

My first overriding emotion was embarrassment.

When I heard one say to the other, “It was a domestic dispute,” I felt the blood rush to my face. The emotion immediately following was anger.

“No! You don’t understand. My dad has a brain tumor. He’d never hurt us or our mom!” 

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little eyes
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little eyes

Matthew 18:6 "But if you cause one of these little ones who trusts in me to fall into sin, it would be better for you to have a large millstone tied around your neck and be drowned in the depths of the sea."

My eyes can't unsee it.

The video that a facebook friend had posted looked innocent enough. I clicked on it before I read the caption that stated, "Share to help find this monster."

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the essence of big love
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the essence of big love

The risk of loving big is that big goodbyes can wreck you.

If you've lived long enough, you've experienced it. The reverberating pain of saying goodbye to someone you love.

I've been to more funerals than I can count. My beloved father passed away when I was a teen and three more people I loved completely, my husband's mom, dad, and sister, Denise, all died within a handful of years from one another.

But these are not the kinds of letting go I'm referring to.

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