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the affair
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the affair

I'm having an affair.  I should feel very, very guilty ... but I don't. He's a married father of three. I'm also married with three children. I happen to know his children very well.  In fact, I've known his wife my whole life. I am her, she is me. I'm having an affair with my husband.

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where it all began

It began in the spring of 1985.

Actually, let me back up. It began, specifically, at 12:30 a.m. on December 26, 1984—the first time Craig and I said "I love you" to one another.

I was a month over seventeen, a senior in high school, and Craig had just turned nineteen the week before, a college freshman home for Christmas break.

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